trip with a baby in South Africa from Agulhas to Hermanus through Elim and Pealy Beach. Scenic roads, wine tasting.
Table of Contents
- Main Journey
- Events
- Tips for Traveling with a Baby
- Local Travel Tips
- Travel Reflections



1. Main Journey
We were on Day 76 of our world trip with Sweetie when we said goodbye to Cape Agulhas. It was mid-June, and the Southern Hemisphereโs winter was in full swingโcool, windy, cloudy. The kind of weather that makes you feel quiet inside.
Most people wouldโve taken the straight paved roads from Agulhas to Hermanus, but we took the slower route, quite literally. A dirt road through Elim, a route the owner of our guesthouse recommended.
โItโs not the fastest, but itโs the most beautiful.โ
He wasnโt wrong.
The gravel road had a few slippery spots, but no deep potholes or scary turns. We just kept things slow and steady, and the journey felt peaceful. It wasnโt just a roadโit felt like a path through another world.
We stopped often. For plants. For air. For silence.
Itโs hard to explain, but Iโve always had a soft spot for plants. Years ago, work led me to start learning about them, and I got hooked. So when I see something unusual growing out of scorched soilโblood-red leaves against black groundโI stop. Every time.
One area looked like a forest had been torched, and now only the root clusters were left, holding the last bit of soil. I stood there staring at those forms, thinking,
โMaybe this is what rebirth looks like.โ
Sweetie was asleep in the back seat. Julie and I stretched, breathed in the cold wind, and got back on the road.
2. Events
Not long after, we saw a wooden sign with an oak barrel carved into itโBlack Oystercatcher Wines. I pulled over immediately. When you’re driving through rural South Africa and you see a winery, you stop. Thatโs just the rule.
The parking lot was full. Families, kids, couplesโit wasnโt a fancy scene, just warm and relaxed. Kids were playing on the grass. Adults were sipping wine or locally brewed beer. It reminded me of lazy weekends back home.
Julie did most of the tastingโI was on driving dutyโbut I could tell she was enjoying herself. It had been a while since I saw her cheeks flush from wine. She was glowing, laughing like before Sweetie was born. It felt like time travel, in the best way.
Sweetie, meanwhile, decided to become a photographer. She started mimicking my shutter sounds, โclick click,โ every time I took a picture. I think that little moment was my favorite part of the day.
Back on the road, a sudden movement on the gravel caught our eyes. Two horsesโwild, or maybe just roamingโwere galloping toward us, then suddenly turned and vanished back into the brush.
Julie looked at me and said,
โWow. We really are in Africa.โ
We kept moving.
Elim appeared like a dreamโwhitewashed homes with thatched roofs, simple and still. Some buildings were falling apart, overgrown, like they’d been left behind by time. It was quiet. The kind of quiet that makes you whisper, even when youโre outside.
Eventually, the road climbed a hill, and thenโout of nowhereโthe ocean exploded into view.











3. Tips for Traveling with a Baby
Traveling like this with a toddler isnโt easy. But itโs possibleโand honestly, it’s magic when it works. A few things we learned (and keep learning):
- Stop often, even if it messes with your schedule. Sweetie gets fussy between 10am and noon. Weโve learned not to push through it. Stretch breaks, snack breaks, beach breaksโwhatever helps her reset.
- Backroads are worth itโjust go slow. The road through Elim wasnโt paved, but it was peaceful and scenic. As long as you donโt rush, youโll be fine.
- Outdoor places with space are a lifesaver. Black Oystercatcher Wines was baby-friendly in the most natural wayโkids could run around safely, parents could sit back and breathe.
- Little things go a long way. Sweetie mimicking my camera clicks kept her happy for hours. Toys are great, but simple interactions often work best.







4. Local Travel Tips
If you ever find yourself driving this part of South Africa, hereโs what Iโd pass on:
- Black Oystercatcher Wines (Bredasdorp) โ Charming, not too touristy, and good wine. Definitely stop in if youโre near R317. Family-friendly with a local vibe.
- Elim โ A small, historic village worth the detour. The traditional architecture and stillness make it a beautiful pause.
- Pealy Beach โ The waves are wild and the wind bites, but itโs a powerful place. We couldnโt stop staring at the foamy surf piling up in little mountain-like shapes.
- Hermanus accommodation isnโt cheap โ It caught us off guard. Most guesthouses are โboutiqueโ and 4-star. We barely found a backpacker hostel with availability, and even that was fancy by normal standards.
- Supermarkets are a key part of the experience โ We ended the day with a big shop at Pick n Pay. South African beef is amazingโhigh-quality, grass-fed, and cheap. I lit the coals and we had a quick-fire BBQ. That smoky flavor after a long day? Nothing better.
5. Travel Reflections
That day on the roadโdusty, slow, full of stopsโreminded me why weโre doing this.
We werenโt rushing to check places off a list. We were there to feel the land, see Sweetie discover a new corner of the world, and watch each other get surprised by little things again.
The drive didnโt just take us to Hermanus. It gave us stillness, laughter, a buzz from wine, and the shock of wild horses on an open road.
We arrived just before sunset. Sweetie was calm, Julie was glowing, and I felt like weโd earned every minute of that day.
Even the expensive guesthouses couldnโt bother me after that.













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